Returned From The Pet Sematary

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This has been a bad year for Levi.  In hindsight there were clues that his health was deteriorating beyond old age vision problems.  Over the last year he has been lashing out at the three younger dogs for no apparent reason.  I made excuses that his unusual, aggressive behavior was a result of living with three young, exuberant dogs filled with vigor and not much common sense.  But was there a demon living inside him that was growing and waiting to come out?  We cannot foresee the future of our animals, we can only read gradual changes in behavior; clues that something is not right.  Animals speak in a language we cannot fathom.  We can only pick up a sense of something wrong or off as we go along our daily path together.

Earlier this year Levi had a bout of Clostridium, a nasty poopy-butt mess that often attacks young and old dogs with weakened immune systems.  The vet gave me some pills for Levi, but cautioned that should he start throwing up I was to return Levi immediately.  For twenty-four hours Levi was a new dog.  I could almost hear him sighing with relief.  But within forty-eight hours he was throwing up clear liquid.  Again I took him to the vet and returned with more medicine.  It was at this time that I wrote my first eulogy draft as I believed my dog was clearly at death’s door.  But he recovered.  I felt happy and stored away the final words I’d written about him.

Levi had been limping on his left leg and there was some swelling at one joint.  After he recovered from his near death poopy-butt episode I took him back to the vet.  An x-ray showed Levi has osteoarthritis, no doubt from years of running, jumping and herding imaginary sheep in the back yard.  Again I left the vet’s office with medicine.  Levi was a sweetie about pill time.  I could gently insert the pills into the back of his mouth and kiss his muzzle as I rubbed his throat.  He’d wag his tail and walk away.  I felt blessed to have such a sweet loving animal.  We are in this journey together, I wrote in my notebook.  I will keep him healthy and by my side forever.  A well noted author of books about dogs, donkeys and life, Jon Katz, introduced me to the word hubris, which means over-confidence, pride, egotism.  Hubris soon came forward and slapped me in the face.

In May, Levi was blissfully running in the fenced back yard with the other dogs while I trimmed the long line of bushes in the front yard.  After an hour I gathered up the panting dogs and they all dutifully followed me into the cool house.  As I got ready to leave to treat myself to lunch at a nearby restaurant, I called Levi to join the others in one last potty run outside.  Levi was curled up under the kitchen table in an odd position, alive, panting but not moving.  I got down to his level and called him to me.  He was panicking.  His body wasn’t responding to his brain’s commands.  Shocked, I realized he was paralyzed and needed to go to the vet immediately.  There is a lot of shade in the back yard and a big bucket of water.  It didn’t appear that he was having a heat stroke.  This was not something I could fix on my own.  My voice shaking, I called the vet and said I was coming in with Levi immediately.  The lady on the phone hesitated.  This particular clinic is always very busy but I left no chance for her to deny my dog.  I pushed my wooden table aside easily on the tile floor to get closer to Levi.  The other dogs strangely stayed back in another room, quiet, watching.  Reaching under Levi I picked up forty-nine pounds of bones and fur and walked halfway to the garage, when my back suddenly felt like it was being ripped in two.  I screamed in pain.  Levi and I collapsed together on the floor where I cried out in frustration.  The only option left was to call my non-dog neighbor who is the same age as me and ask for help.  She and a visiting friend and I managed to get Levi into the back of my car and I took off to the vet, my back still pulsing in pain.

That was the start of four days of back and forth calls to the clinic’s two vets and numerous technicians.  Over the course of this period Levi regained the use of his legs.  I was waiting for a definitive diagnosis.  Was it an inner ear infection, a stroke or a brain tumor, exercise induced or tick related?  Animal clinics rarely have the sophisticated equipment one would find in a human hospital.  The vet said, had it been me, I would have had a brain scan immediately.  The clinic had to use the limited equipment on hand to make a diagnosis.  They hooked Levi up to an IV, give him anti-inflammatory drugs, did a blood panel, etc.

Each day I got a call from the doctor telling me that Levi was responding slowly, that he was spinning to the right only, but it was getting better.  He believes it is an inner ear infection but said although there was the possibility of permanent neurological damage Levi could over time, do well enough to survive.  On Monday I went to the office to pick up my old dog.  He walked by me and heard my voice but gave no indication that he knew me.  I walked him to the car as he circled to the right repetitively and with my back screaming in pain, I loaded him into the front seat, his legs still going in odd directions.  Within an hour I called the vet back in tears.  This is not quality of life, I cried.

Have you ever read Stephen King’s Pet Sematary?  I have walked down the path to the place where you send off your final tearful prayers to your long-loved pet, its cold body resting in the dark soil.  In disbelief I ventured over the forbidden wall to the area where you can get your pet’s body back.  But the moral of the story is that you cannot get the soul of the pet back.  What remains is a shell, sometimes a vicious or at least angry being that lashes back at being torn from its last resting place.  I have tried to save the Levi I knew and there is only his physical body beside me.  To add even more fuel to my fiery decision, Levi has lashed out at me like he used to with the other dogs.  All the training he had over the last decade is erased from his mind.  Our relationship, our memories are now wiped clean from his brain.  He exists: breathing, eating, pottying outside and barking at various things.  But he is not the dog I wanted to save.  In my haste to do the right thing he became one of the characters in a horror novel.

The vet suggested that I give Levi two weeks to heal but I’ve amended that to “up to two weeks”.  I cannot live in fear that the undead stranger on my kitchen floor may turn on me.  I cannot let his memories and his loving spirit which I now hold in my own mind, end in a memory of him inflicting pain, for no reason other than that he is fighting to return to a peaceful place beyond us.  The next eulogy to Levi will be the real one.

POSTSCRIPT:  After reading the above I called the vet back.  I brought Levi in and he agreed that Levi’s temperament was becoming aggressive.  We both feel Levi had a brain tumor so my beloved dog was released to Heaven to chase sheep for eternity.

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9 thoughts on “Returned From The Pet Sematary

  1. The pet semetary metaphor is an apt one. Occurred to me too once, in a similar circumstance, with an old dog I would have kept with me forever. A grim, but half-funny realization that any vestige of control over the poor dog’s well-being was gone. You did the best you could, and I believe that a part of Levi, untouched by his compromised body and brain, did witness your love and care, from afar as it were, and would have reciprocated in all the recognizably affectionate ways, if he only could have. So sorry for this painful experience.

    • i will always remember his sense of humor, his incredible work ethic and our strong bond. Today will be lost eventually in my memory, overridden by all the good times we had. But I do think when he bit my leg this morning that he was saying, hurry. He wanted peace.

      • I love a dog with a sense of humor. I’m sure you are right – the sadness will be replaced with gratitude. I hope your leg heals quickly. Levi must have been very ill. I have a small, barely visible scar on my hand, from a miscalculation when my dear former stray, my funny, head-cocking Borderline collie-something was crazy sick. He sat in my lap afterwards, to reassure and be comforted. He survived that illness, and my wound healed as he got better. That last year was a long haul that broke my heart. Would I want to love less, to hurt less? I don’t think so. Now, I treasure that small scar as a reminder of him, and the marks he left on my heart that will stay with me as long as I live. Your story with Levi isn’t over. You will come to know him in a different way, as he comes to inhabit your memory.

  2. Thank you for sharing this story…as fellow dog owners we have all been in these painful, hard-to-walk shoes.
    I have been haunted by the picture of my dead-dog-walking happily waving his tail and going in to the back room of the vet clinic, all on his own, and away from me forever. Was this the same dog that at home can’t do stairs but once a day, pees giant puddles every few minutes, eats everything he can touch and writhes in seizures almost every day? Really? was he so eager to see what lies on the other side that he must break away from me and go visit everyone else and RUSH to meet the person who will open that gate for him?

    I like to believe that he rallied only enough for this one visit and he was determined to make it a good one.

  3. Levi wagged his tail when we walked into the vet’s office today, which I thought was strange. But at the last moment he fought death. Two hours later I heard a clap of thunder. He’s arrived in Heaven!

  4. Thank you for sharing with us…this is the hardest part of loving and losing our fur babies…and yet we most always go back again and again because in the end, the good parts of the lives we share with them are irreplaceable and far out weigh the bad…Rest in peace now Levi, I am glad to have known you, even though it was only through this site…I know you were loved and loved back and had a wonderful life.

  5. As Levi’s spirit was slipping away I had a momentary thought of never getting another dog. But then I came home to three goofball Border Collies and a cat. Play it again, Sam.

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